HELP! Me and my boyfriend have becaome very intimate lately, but he dosen't seem to as much.?

What can I do to heighten the pleasure of our intimacy? We have bought the KY gel and it helps. We don't use condoms anymore either. It saddens me that he rarely comes, although I do numerous times during . That is the main problem. He never s frequently. I'm not sure if it's because we have often, or what. I just really need help to fix this! Also If you don't have anything nice to say please don't comment. I'm looking for real solutions to make more pleasurable for both of us. Thank you in advance for any helpful tips! ;->