SERIOUSLY! how DO you get over a shattered heart?

God my heart bleeds for you.truly truly bleeds.There are books on this ,get one it will help.It's all about maturity ,you know that but it's WORK,hard work,not just for men but for woman as well, this growing up thing.Responsibility respect sweetness and love.I bet he really meant it from the heart when he said all those "lies".But now it is too hard.Skirt chasing and bed hopping is so much easier.Falling in love over and over is so much easier than actually being in love.Loving is to act in a loving manor regardless of feelings of the moment.Loving is growing and helping each other to grow.It is nothing but a GOD DAMMED fire pit.A burning ring of fire as my good Friend Johnny Cash sings it.You can stand and FIGHT or you can LET IT GO,either choice I will respect you .But I'll tell you verily it wont be EZ either way.Try the road less traveled it's a good one or just look in the book store for something more up to date.Just make sure it's not a sarcastic writing on the subject.Anything by a psychologist should be serious.You will be in my thoughts and I send you my love.