Why does everyone act like is an absolute necessity?

Okay I understand that you do not want but why exactly? is fun I don't see how you could be so against it. If you really don't want it then shut the **** up and don't have it. I'm sorry to break it to you but I'm not exactly sure what you expect a community that is primarily made up of teenagers asking why their smells and Citizenship teachers telling them about STI's to say to you. I would see a therapist and as against that as you are if you're seeking help then this is not the place for a problem like that.